Roman English
Chhori janme juwai lai, chhoro janme buhaari lai !
अर्थ
यो उखानले छोराछोरी हुर्केपछि र विवाह गरेपछि उनीहरू आफ्ना जीवनसाथी (छोरीको लागि ज्वाईं, छोराको लागि बुहारी) र नयाँ परिवारप्रति बढी समर्पित हुन्छन् भन्ने यथार्थलाई दर्शाउँछ। यसले गर्दा आमाबुबाले आफ्ना छोराछोरी टाढिएको वा पराई भएको महसुस गर्न सक्छन्। यो जीवनको प्राकृतिक चक्र हो जहाँ सन्तानले आफ्नै घरजम गर्छन् र उनीहरूको प्राथमिकता परिवर्तन हुन सक्छ।
उदाहरण
बिहे गरेपछि छोरा र छोरी दुवै आ-आफ्नो घर संसारमा व्यस्त भए, माइती कमै आउँछन्। आमाले भन्नुहुन्छ, 'के गर्नु खै, छोरी जन्मे ज्वाईंलाई, छोरो जन्मे बुहारीलाई भनेको यही रहेछ।'
Literal English Translation
Daughter is born for the son-in-law, son is born for the daughter-in-law.
English Meaning
This proverb reflects the reality that once children grow up and get married, they often become more devoted to their spouses (son-in-law for the daughter, daughter-in-law for the son) and their new families. Parents might feel a sense of distance or that their children now 'belong' to someone else. It acknowledges the natural life cycle where children establish their own households and loyalties may shift.
English Proverb
A son is a son till he gets a wife; a daughter's a daughter all her life. (Note: While commonly cited, this English proverb doesn't perfectly capture the Nepali meaning, as the Nepali proverb implies *both* children shift allegiance, whereas the English one suggests the daughter remains closer.)
यस्तै अरु उखानहरु
आमा बाबुलाई समस्या टार्न गार्हो, छोराछोरीलाई भने स्टाईल नै प्यारो ।
Aamaa baabu lai samasya taarna gahro, chhora chhori lai bhane style nai pyaaro.
परिमार्जित मिति:
आफ्नो छोराछोरी र अर्काकी स्वास्नी सबैलाई राम्रो लाग्छ !
Aafno chora chori ra arkaa ki swasni sabai lai ramro laagchha
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